People

I thought today I'd do something a bit different. We all know that there are some people in the world we don't like, and lets face it there are probably some people who don't like us. People can be bitchy and be honest who hasn't been bitchy. I'm not saying it't good to be nasty or two-faced or anything like that but occasionally you feel bad yourself so you think bad about someone else to make you feel better. Constantly pointing out other peoples' flaws and problems isn't going to make you any better or stronger or prettier, its just going to make someone else feel just as bad as you. This works both ways, some people might feel like this towards you. Sometimes its because of what you once said or did but usually its for no reason and they pick on you because they can. Never will everybody like you and there's nothing you can do about it so what's best is just to remember those who do like and love us.

When you meet new people its easy to make first impressions but one thing i've learnt fairly recently is that you never know what peoples' personal lives are really like and something you say to make a huge difference to them whether it be good or bad. People can look at someone else's life and think they wish theirs was more like it but often these people have their own problems. What i'm trying to say is that however cliched it is nobody is perfect, everybody has their problems and if you straight in there telling them how perfect their life is and constantly compare everything you could just make something a whole lot worse for that person. Also though you could just make their day with any little compliment or smile or just keeping your comments to yourself. One lovely quote I once found is:

"Be nice and smile to everybody because they might just need and treasure that smile"

I hope you take something from this and i'm sorry it seems a bit cliched but its something I hold close to my heart. Respect peoples feelings and know that whatever people think of you although it is not easy try to be a stronger person and don't sink to their level.

Have a lovely weekend <3